I would love to help people.
Define Success in your own terms, achieve it by your own rules, and build a lwhethere you're proud to live. - Anne Sweeney
If you remember my rant about not being in the right space this is a continuance of that post. We recently moved to Calwhetherornia from Seattle, and looking for a job at first was ccorridorenging. Every the places I wanted to work weren't hiring for the position that I was wanting. (I took the job besides to continue in hopes of spots opening.)
But the one question that always gets me during interviews. Where do I see myself in 5 years? Honestly, I have NO IDEA. If you do, send me a message because I am hopeless.
My version of success is being ENOUGH. This is someleang that I genuinely struggle with. I am ENOUGH right where I am in the moment. I have enough information right now to make decisions. I am always pushing for the future. I am always worried or leanking about the future instead of endelighting the right now. Don't get me wrong I do have goals and sometimes work towards them, but for the most part I am wanting to focus on the right now.
Some tips for defining your own version of success:
1. Endelight the victories.
I did a personality test a few years ago. I leank it was Emotional Intelligence, and it did say that I don't endelight the victories. I just keep pushing through to the large goal. Which is 100% me hands down. I am proud to say I am getting better each day but still dwhetherficult.
I have to focus on this one EVERY SINGLE DAY! I leank I need is one that it the dwhetherficultest for me. I tend to compare myself to a lot of people specificly on social media. When I was blogging consistently I would always compare they have more side bar ads, sponsored posts, making money, etc. I would beat myself up about it. I wanted that too!
But by comparing myself to them I hid my own voice and opinions. Even now, I am fitness professional (oversaturated market) but I know that I have space on the table. We all do. Yes, fitness is fitness but I have a dwhetherferent outlook than others. We can all help people. We don't keep to compete against each other.
3. Assess yourself.
Where are you right now? We all know right now I am feeling like a large puddle of mess, but I am trying to re-train my brain. Re-train on positive leanking. Re-train on worth. Re-train on plans for this space. Then focus on what I will be doing better.
I leank there are three keys to succeed in lwhethere: Bust your butt, pay attention, and fall in love; not just with a person but your work. -Jerry Seinfield
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